My Mama breathed her last this morning, and still the relief that she’s not suffering is stronger than the grief. Alzheimer’s takes away those we love a little piece at a time; at the end, there is only a shell, and brief glimpses of who she once was.
i was with her when she breathed her last, peacefully slipping away while i re-read Nora Roberts “The Key of Light.” Comfort reading it was, looking up every few paragraphs, til i looked up and she was not breathing.
i’m not alone. My sister and my daughter are here for me, cousins, friends and co-workers have been kind.
But the amazing silver lining has been youall. The stories you’ve shared about your experiences, the e-mail, the comments, the prayers, and the love you’ve shown have made me feel so good.
Through youall, i feel connected – connected to those of you who i know – but also connected to every one. The loss of a parent is such a universal experience, and yet each person’s story is unique. You made me see that.
i have felt held and comforted every step of this journey.
i wish you were all here, so i could hug you. Instead I can just say “Thank you.”
You are loved. i am deeply saddened for you, for your loss.
Holding you in my heart until i can hug your neck for real…nilla
@’Nilla – And I just keep saying it – thank you so much. Can’t wait til October!!
hugs,
aisha
There aren’t any words that can help much right now. But I’m thinking of you and holding you in My heart.
N x
@Nick –
Thank you so much. Just knowing that you care and are thinking of me help more than you can imagine.
aisha
I can’t begin to express. Been thinking of you Aisha. Thank you back..
K
Thank you for the thoughts, K. I really can feel all the energy youall have sent.
aisha
You are held and you are loved Aisha… my thoughts are with you at this very difficult time….
Hugs my friend…
My heart goes out to you.
There aren’t any other words to help you but there are hugs… lots of them.
@Histoy,
Thank you so much – it really has made a difference for me, and I appreciate it so much.
aisha
@Nancy,
Thank you for the hugs – I swear I can feel from them from here!
hugs,
aisha
aisha,
Close your eyes and feel the support from all of the people who send it, I am adding mine.
HSxx
@HS,
Yes. I can close my eyes and feel it, and it has carried me all this while. Thank you.
aisha
No words, just love, <3
E
@Ewoman – Thank you, and love back to you.
aisha
more hugs aisha….
I’m glad you are but alone.
She’s looking over you now and I’m sure in a better place.
@Alujna,
Yes, no doubt she’s in a better place! And probably glad to be there!
Thank you for the support.
aisha
that “but” was supposed to be “not”… typo…
Hugs
Thinking of you Aisha, If we helped at all, I’m very glad. Take care of yourself.
sin
@Sin
You have no idea how much you’ve helped. Thank you.
aisha
please accept my sympathy, it has been said that anyone who is remembered never truly dies. Cherish the memories and she will be with you always.
@Gofish,
Thank you so much. You’re right – I have memories of her that will take me a lifetime to sort through. She’ll always be with me.
Thank you.
aisha
God grant you peace.
Thank you so much, Gg.
aisha
I was wondering about you and dreamt of you last night aisha. Surrounded yourself with things you love.
I’ll be *hugging* you all day
Thank you, Andi. Cool that you dreamt about me I think – at least, unless it was a nightmare!
I can feel your hugs.
Thank you.
aisha
Sending you all my love.
You were a good daughter — you gave her love and support and in the end – you gave her rest.
She’s at peace
Love you
sfp
Thank you, Sfp.
Yeah. I guess I did – at least, as best I could And she is at peace, thank goodness.
love you too – hugs,
aisha
wish there was a song for this…. Very painful (and strange) to lose a parent who has already forgotten about you. But I am sure she is at peace, and I hope you are too.
Mick
Thanks, Mick – there should be a song, shouldn’t there? You know, she would have hated living the way it’s been for her. Hated it. So yes, there’s a lot of comfort in knowing that she’d rather be where she is now.
Thank you.
aisha
Your words have given me a tiny bit of courage to face my future. I know I too will be facing this all too soon… it is the inevitable consequence to living and getting older.
My thoughts are with you.
x
Dear Xantu,
I’m so glad if my words have helped in some way. If you ever want to talk, I’m here.
Thank you.
aisha
I’m so sorry for your loss.
Dear Poured out,
Thank you so much – for the kind words, and for commenting.
hugs,
aisha